沒有大徹大悟，就得不到平靜自我觀/Without clear mind/certain experience, you can find your own way！~上集

首先，我也沒有大徹大悟，而我是半吊子的自我但浮動的需求觀。在這個時代裡，你無法拒絕五花八門的外界誘惑。你做得到就出世了！可以普渡眾生了。至少還要為五斗米折腰，但只求可以堅定自我，減少誘惑和上癮。這是過了40後，逐步還能加減維持。

年輕是對所有東西都好奇也想擁有。不斷得學習和建立經驗。步入中年後才能摸索出一些東西來。這可是搞得傷痕累累、血淋淋的經驗而來。不說別的，高爾夫球桿就是買到需要有房間或倉庫去放。現在還是持續在買。我不後悔這些東西和經驗，因為沒有經驗就沒有現在的想法、觀念和做法。也知道美麗的背後是什麼事實。

我們活在一個商業包裝的世界和時代裡。包括自己也是包裝過後的產品。所以我現在比較不會去包裝自己，盡可能以最真實的一面去互動外界。因為就如同賣產品一樣，不可能所有人都是我的客人，我只做我想做的人，客人可以選擇要和那種人購買！大家都有選擇權。

至少在針對的客人上，我是以個人的經驗來分享交流！因為你買不買也是運氣。世上沒有絕對好和不好。就交流來說就是有緣，才能有後續。如果你不是我的菜，苗頭不對我也是毫不猶豫的撤退。不對盤的人就是很累，所以找臭味相投的人，交流互動才能減少問題和矛盾。

有時候實在很想說；我說了這麼多，你還是去給別人削，自己還很爽。我是幹嘛、還拉！所以現在都很平靜。你要去給別人貴就去吧！我只做我想做的人。還沒有經歷過的事，看不到核心和自己的需求。跟著浪潮走，追究會被浪給打回來。

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沒有大徹大悟，就得不到平靜自我觀/Without clear mind/certain experience, you can find your own way！~下集
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We are living this modern world, there are many fancy things around us. It's easy to get something you really don't need. Over sales and over consuming are the standard features of this world. If you want to avoid it and stick on your own way to survive, you have to have certain experience to know what's not to get?

Not to get is fun! For me when I was young I bought lots of things such as golf clubs and gained so many experience then become some kinds of expertise. Since there were many bad experience and failures and I learned from it and live from it. That's why I can have my own way to get the right things with the right fee. 

Nothing is free! You want the answer to avoid the problems and get the short cut, yes, you need to pay! Online is not free as you need to digest tons of times for finding the right information with your internet service cost. 

It's like selling the products, I always setup my target audience, there is no one fits all products. You can choose who you would like to buy, I can decide who I would like to sell. With the same mindset and attitude, we can make things and transaction smooth, efficient and smooth. I want to make my life easier and happier!

If you do not have enough experiences, you do not know what's good for you and how to build you own way in this world to get right things for you. That's tough job and cost you millions of dollars to get it. That's why the experience is the key and fundamental to make you different and live with your own way.

Without clear mind/certain experience, you can find your own way！~Part II
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